I just did a search for OpenGL problems with the 965 Express Chipset form Intel, and one page came up in several cases where the problems had been solved. There seems to be a separate settings page for OpenGL when you run the native Intel drivers. More information can be found here. http://www.intel.com/support/graphics/sb/CS-030506.htm
Are any of the developers able to identify any discrepancies or potential culprits in the default settings as shown on that page. Maybe it's possible to get Oolite to work by adjusting these settings.